Just so you know, I have the best family ever. They love me so much that they ran away for the afternoon so that I could work for like 5 straight hours. Alone. Sweet, glorious, solitary work time. Ahhh….
In between grading 45 animal posters, sweeping up dust balls the size of guinea pigs, and finding missing puzzle pieces in the diaper pail, I had some time to think.
I spent some of the time wondering just how long it had been since I had swept the bathroom floor or who exactly hid the puzzle piece in such an odd place, but mostly I thought about why I was enjoying such a great day. The more I thought about it, the more I realized that all signs pointed to me having a bang-up kind of afternoon. Really.
You see, I have a bit of a fascination with personality tests. I think I probably took my first one in preparation to be a camp counselor in high school. Since then I’ve been subjected to plenty of others—for jobs, teams, projects, classes, and every once in a while, just for fun. It seems many people quickly forget the results of these tedious assessments, but instead I often find myself discovering some tiny new, helpful way to understand what makes me tick. And it seemed that the longer I contemplated it this afternoon, the more sense it made as to why I was just delighted to be at home working alone.
So mostly because I’m curious to see if I would describe myself the same way in a few years (and less because I think you’ll actually be very interested) here’s a summary of me according to a few descriptions that I remember best…
INTJ—It’s been awhile since I’ve taken the Myers-Briggs test, but I remember one thing very well from my most recent assessment….I lean very far to the introverted side of things. I actually think the last time I took it I received the highest possible score I could in this category. So while several of my friends left last night’s retirement party spinning with excitement, I left needing some major recovery time. This afternoon solo fit the bill exactly.
Acts of Service—I don’t think I had to actually take a test to know that this is my love language. When Jay and I were dating in college, I got lots of gushy letters on my windshield and a few pretty sweet gifts. But I’m not sure any of those things stood a chance against the day he took my car to the shop get it serviced without even being asked. So when he takes both crazy kids for the afternoon and puts up with their shenanigans, not only do I get three times more accomplished, but I feel super loved.
Achiever—The StrengthsFinder test is by far the one that has made the most sense to me. Besides Achiever, my other four “strengths” are Focus, Significance, Learner, and Responsibility. This description of Achiever is so me:
You feel as if every day starts at zero. By the end of the day you must achieve something tangible in order to feel good about yourself. And by “every day” you mean every single day—workdays, weekends, vacations. No matter how much you may feel you deserve a day of rest, if the day passes without some form of achievement, no matter how small, you will feel dissatisfied.
So while ½ of my little family (Bubba not included) would be perfectly fine spending the whole day watching Wild Kratts or StarTrek episodes, I’m just not wired that way. I feel a greater amount of rest and peace after working hard and accomplishing tasks than I ever feel on a lazy day.
There are a few other tiny nuggets that I have learned about myself along the way. Though they don’t necessarily explain why I’d choose a work day at home over many other options, I still think they are interesting and telling. I use the idea of Multiple Intelligences in my class regularly, and I think mine are probably intrapersonal, logical-mathematical, and (maybe, more recently) linguistic. And I once took part in a decision making simulation that showed that I like to spend forever in the gathering information stage, and then I fly right past the weighing options and into carrying out the plan. Fascinating stuff, I tell you.
Here we are, 740 words later, and I’m stuck trying to wrap this thing up. My brain that’s wired with the strength of Focus says that there must be some bigger point.
Your Focus reminds everyone that if something is not helping you move toward your destination, then it is not important. And if it is not important, then it is not worth your time. You keep everyone on point.
So maybe this is the destination I’m headed towards…becoming more and more fascinated with the Creator and his intricate creations. No matter how many tests could be developed and taken, no combination of test results can fully explain any one person. And those people around me who are the exact opposite from me—the extroverted, feeling, gift-giving, woo-ers—are there to help me see a fuller picture of the Master of creativity.
Yep. I think I’ll focus on that.